tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post2132748980202564285..comments2010-09-02T16:23:02.210-07:00Comments on Access Granted, Please Enter: Big News!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post-6121495849889009202010-07-25T12:32:27.322-07:002010-07-25T12:32:27.322-07:00LEIGH-Thank you so much for your support! I have t...LEIGH-Thank you so much for your support! I have to post about the conversation I had w/ K's dad a few weeks ago! So much has been happening I've fallen behind on filling you guys in! lol. But you're right...the most important thing is doing what is best for K and that is what I will always do. I love her more than life! xoxo<br /><br />VON-I agree that he has rights, which is why I was so compelled to tell him about her. It's something I've always felt guilty over but at the same time, I don't know him or how he would react and the most important thing to me is that she and her family are safe and not exposed to someone who could try to disrupt their lives. Thank you for your support! xoxo<br /><br />MAMA K!!!-I love your blog and I'm soooo happy to hear from you! Yey!! I totally get you checking out...been there a hundred times!Can't wait to talk to you more! Love ya!<br /><br />KELSEY-Thank you for your support and kind words! The roller coaster of emotions for a B-Mom is never ending and meeting my daughter was (and is) unlike anything I've ever known! Whoa!! It was truly incredible to see her, to meet her, to hold her and I'm so happy to share it with all of you!! xoxoJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623651581706315558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post-57426558794188001992010-07-22T09:58:48.152-07:002010-07-22T09:58:48.152-07:00I don't know you, but I can feel your exciteme...I don't know you, but I can feel your excitement! So happy that you get to meet K and hang out with her tomorrow, I know your heart is light and full of hope to finally get to see her, touch her, just be with her. Life as a birth mother is a difficult road to navigate with all the emotions, or lack of sometimes. And when you get that opportunity to see with your own eyes what they look like, what mannerisms they have, what their voice sounds like...well it is surreal to say the least! I hope it is an amazing day for you, and her as well. I am sure that as excited as you are to meet her, her heart must be bursting at the seems as well!!!<br /><br />I am going to stay tuned and cannot wait to hear how it went! Have a GREAT day!Kelsey Stewart, Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post-58415860401067492902010-07-22T08:46:32.898-07:002010-07-22T08:46:32.898-07:00I'm Here.
Wow. Soooooo....tell me, tell me!!!
...I'm Here.<br />Wow. Soooooo....tell me, tell me!!!<br />U know i checked out.....I had to. But i'm back...I Think. lol<br />I'm listening...<br />LOVE ~n~ HUGZZZZZ::::::<br />Mama K.Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07334881879650914173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post-2969198516523337122010-07-06T23:52:02.604-07:002010-07-06T23:52:02.604-07:00He has rights too and so has your daughter, the ri...He has rights too and so has your daughter, the right to know and to know her father.Take it slowly.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584544219649697178.post-53376640862025741122010-06-25T11:21:32.113-07:002010-06-25T11:21:32.113-07:00Hi Jen! Congratulations on having another talk wit...Hi Jen! Congratulations on having another talk with him. I definitely think you're doing the right thing by him to continue to communicate with him about his daughter. I'm not surprised that he had a follow-up reaction, b/c remember, you've had many years to process this news and he's absorbing it all at once! So I'm sure there will be a rollercoaster of emotions from him for awhile.<br /><br />Hopefully he'll be able to come to an understanding about what happened in the past and why you had to do what you had to do. As for the next steps, I think you're, again, right on with your instincts that maybe you shouldn't tell him EVERYTHING right now (like that you're meeting her - YAY!!!! btw) Again, he might initially be upset with you if he felt like he was kept in the dark, but you have to be able to trust that he'll have a calm, level headed reaction when he does one day interact with her, and you can't trust that just yet, right?<br /><br />No matter what, it's clear to tell that you're open and honest and want what's best for your daughter. I think you're doing everything right and making the best decisions you can. BD will come around eventually. Good luck with your big reunion! I'm so happy for you!Leighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07578872366867741463noreply@blogger.com